Hi Everyone,
Smoking Marijuana used to be a lot of fun for me, I am not going to lie. But it was a bit of a slippery slope. I don’t know exactly when it happened, but the side effects of smoking marijuana started to become worse than the ‘high’.
I started smoking heavily while I was in university, at around 18 years old. I was able to keep up my grades, and social expectations, but still enjoy a regular smoke…..for a while. Gradually, I started to puff more often, until I was smoking 1/4 oz of fine herb every 4 or 5 days. I would wake and bake, then smoke a cigarette (I wasn’t a cigarette smoker…but I thought it got me more high) first thing in the morning. Then I would chase the high all day.
I carried on like this for YEARS…I was really stuck in a rut.. The marijuana side effects were way worse for my life than the short feeling of the high, and I knew I had to stop smoking weed…When you think about side effects, you probably think about coughing, red eyes, and the munchies…but what about the larger lifestyle side effects of smoking weed?
For me, there was always some anxiety about people finding out I smoked, or being stoned in public. There was also the anxiety of running out. I used to run around my apartment looking for scraps in the cracks of the coffee table, couch cushions, and on the floor. There was also the $20,000 or so dollars I spent smoking weed. That’s a down payment on house….or a brand new car. My health suffered, partly from smoking, partly from being lazy, because that’s what happened when I got high.
I have gained some perspective in the last 6 months. I don’t really identify with the ‘the person I was’ when I was such a heavy smoker. Don’t get me wrong, I know that was me, but I am kinda embarassed about it. I have friends from that point in my life who only know me as a stoner, and that’s a label no one wants. To my close friends, I have made some apologies, because I wasn’t holding up my side of the friendship like I do now…luckily they have given me the opportunity to prove it. Who would have thought that long term marijuana side effects would be losing friends….it happens.
If you can relate to this, and are still smoking, there are a few things I want to tell you. First off. You CAN do it! Second, think of the weed side effects that you have…and don’t think of just the red eyes and stuff…think of your lifestyle, and if this is the lifestyle you want to keep on living. Personally, I needed to quit weed if I wanted to progress as an individual. I know it sounds a little corny….but it’s truth.
One thing that I recommend is the ‘Cannabis Coach‘. It’s a 5 part audio program that can helped me clear out some of the mental chatter in my head, and really commit to quitting weed. I was pretty private about my addiction, so it was listening to the program helped to keep me accountable.
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ahahahaha stoned like
it is very hard to quit because i used it to cope with losses of family members and my bad relationship just wondering if i can handle all suppressed feelings thru the years when i do quit
My boyfriend just recently stopped smoking so he could apply for jobs next month its been 5 days and hes struggling. We have a long distance relationship and because of work issue with me I won’t be able to see him for three weeks. I dont know how to help him and hes not the type to meditate or listen to a self help cd so what can I do to help him?
I stopped smoking weed over 26 years ago and I still hear the siren’s song calling me back. I don’t know what you call that, but I call it pretty powerful. But that’s for me. I was addicted to it as much as anything. I smoked every day, all day, even when I really didn’t want to. That is addiction. But not everyone who smokes has problems with it. I can accept that. I personally am glad I stopped. The thing that is making me think of weed after all these years is the fact that it could become legal in California. Wow. Imagine not having to worry about getting busted or running out – ever! But the problem is that I’d still get paranoid, lazy, and want to smoke it, chew it, eat it, drink it, or whatever, all day, every day, even when I didn’t want to. See, I am the type of person who gets addicted to drugs and drink. Doesn’t matter if it’s legal or not. The results are still the same.
First, one would have to identify smoking all day long as a problem, how is it a problem? If it makes life easier, things more enjoyable then why not? Enjoyment can be found without the aid of substance in many for some such as me, although never clinically diagnosed as bi-polar (i never went in nor did my parents ever force me to seek out help as a youth with my outburst) I cannot keep a job when I am sober due to my anger and authority issues, i never have outburst but I get fed up and leave. It has been this way even before I had started smoking. Marijuana has been a great way to keep me in a middle zone of comfort in which i no longer explode, i think more before I act and before i talk and in all honesty, marijuana has saved me from certain issues in the workplace that would have turned out differently were I not medicated. I attempted to get medication and was able to get a prescription through a family doctor and friend for adderall which was terrible, then i was put on paxel which again was horrible stuff I did not like or enjoy what they did to me. So although your experience is different please do not state certain aspects of your perception on “marijuana addiction” without at least objectively approaching your own belief.
Drink a little drink, smoke a little smoke!
I stopped smoking pot around 2months ago. I had smoked it for 5-6years daily, and the side affects of me stopping have been far worse than when i was smoking.
I struggle 2 sleep, 2months on and it seems to be getting worse, and when i do sleep i have been getting pretty horrific nightmares. This is resulting in me sleeping in for work, because i never manage 2 get to sleep till around 2-3am and then i keep waking back up after a nightmare. I get up at 6am. I found that when smoking i had no problem getting up in the mornings, or have any nightmares.
I really wanted to get away from the weed lifestyle, but now feel that my only answer is to start again, as i am on the brink of losing my job, and feel like a shell of a person with the dreams im having.
Has anyone had simmiler experiances? and if so, do you have any ideas? Sleeping tablets tend to make me more restless.
I have suffered regular bouts of bronchitis every 6 months since I began smoking. For a year or so I managed to not get it, but now it’s coming back again. I’ve had it like 8 times in 5 years.
I also started smoking because it helped me sleep… but now, for the past week, I have barely slept at all, even when I keep smoking. On top of it, as I said, my lungs are hurting, I’m getting sick again, and my throat constantly feels shredded.
I know I need to quit, but I really felt like I had nothing when I started, and it really does make me feel better. It’s a lot harder to quit when you know you’ll still not have anything in life – you’ll just also not have anything to make it a little more bearable to be so worthless.
I gave up three days ago. I am having very intense dreams at night but during the day I am feeling positive and have lots of energy.
Thanks for the blog- it is very supportive and well-written.
I cut down to 1/8th of an oz. per week approx before stopping.
I stopped cigarettes when my wife became pregnant with my first child. I have stopped the ganja because my daughter is nearly 5 and I feel scummy hiding a drug habit from her. I do not disapprove of smoking weed at all, but it is no longer compatible with my life.
For anyone who wishes to stop, but is finding it hard, THERE IS NO TIME LIKE THE PRESENT. Cut back and then stop.
Maybe take a holiday somewhere family-orientated?
Go away with your parents for a week? Then you will have no choice.
When you come back, just do not start again.
Simple (hah!).
Obviously not really that simple.
Good luck, whatever you choose.
Rob =D
thanks for the motivation! I havent bought a bag for a week now, I have scraped my bowl, looked around for anything that looks green and I have gotten moody and experiencing headaches right now… feeln like crap but determined not to call the dealer!!!
Weed is a best friend that slowly pulls you away from the person you know you really are and the potential of being who you want to be. MJ ddiction IS real and I have expericenced it for over 4 years. Without exageration, I actually smoked an 1/8th of medical grade (Indica) each day, while consuming at least 2 medical edibles before each shift I worked per day. (as a waiter this cost me over 60% of my income). YES, you can be a fucntional stoner like that. But is that really your goal in life; to just be a functinal stoner?Im now only 2 weeks clean and still have a definite sense of chronic listlesness, but at the same time I am amazed with how quickly REAL emotions arise and an actual caring for not only my life, but my communication with others is changing. I still agree weed should by legal becuase anybody should have the right to injest what they want, but admit to yourself right now that YOU ARE NOT LIVING UP TO YOUR POTENTIAL. how long do you really want to live like that? you can stop right now, endure a few shitty-ass weeks of bordem and anxiety. The end result is up to you. While I type this I have an odd combintion of physical anxiety. boredom and pride. Long story short- its worth it to quit. (and yes this time it was finally cold-turkey). Any way, good luck to all of us and I hope you realize your not alone…
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\\\\\\copeing is what is the problem with me/ lEarning how to deal with life without that crutch/…i wish
Ive been smoking pot on a daily basis for 20 plus years. This past year it was legalized in Colorado and let me tell you for the first time in my life I realized that I was riding down a slippery slope and was about to lose it all . Medical marijuana is everywhere , with or without a liscence and it is the strongest stuff you could ever imagine. Within a few weeks I was smoking it all day and all night and felt like I could not stop. There is something different about it, it is extremely addictive and way , way to potent to be readily available. I see a lot of people having a lot of problems very soon and if anyone thinks they are “medicating” themselves they are wrong unless they are terminal. It has been 6 days since I have smoked, probably the longest period I have went in 15 years. I feel awful physically, constant fever, headaches , mood swings and severe depression- but worst of all , as I am slowly comming out of the fog I have been in for years, I am realizing that i have wasted the best years of my life stoned. I missed out on so many things, let go of too many wonderful friends, supressed just about ALL feelings and lost countless opportunites. The reality of it is hitting me like a ton of bricks and I pray that this time I can let it go. Legalizing marijuana is NOT the ANSWER. It is EVIL!!
I was trying to understand and learn more about marijuana when I stumbled upon this page. I don’t know how I could help the person that I love quit smoking weed. It breaks my heart that everytime I see him, I know he’s not seeing me. He’s floating away into some place again which I can’t follow. Its hard to watch him in that state. So hard… the more he hurts… the more I hurt. You know, the feeling of helplessness. The only thing that I can do is be strong and encourage him to quit. If I can only take that drug for him and consume it myself to prevent him from getting high if only for one day, I would.
I already did once. But that didn’t stop him from buying another stash. And smoking it again the next day. So, that was a stupid move. But hey, people do crazy things for the person that they love right?
lol heres the thing, dont call marijuana bad because you dont know how to regulate when you smoke and how youre addicted, first of all you can get mentally addicted to ANYTHING, how many of you watch tv EVERYDAY when you get home and let it get in the way of family or chores…you’re addicted, same for video games, eating, drinking, or ANYTHING that you do too much, quitting anything isn’t always the answer, you just have to learn to regulate and get your priorities straight.
You know why it’s hard to quit weed. Because there’s nothing
wrong with smoking pot. But like you say, It’s the other people who try to be the Buzzkill and inject guilt into an otherwise healthy
and positive endeavor.
Hey this is suhan hea i wana i am not so addicted to weed,but i often feeling like smoking it and i did it also i started smoking weed about three years ago. Now i am 21 year old but i have a lots of issue in quitting weed when i fag weed i’l be in anxiety so if some one could help me out. Jus mail me.
Iv smoked weed everyday and only chronic, none of that nasty shwag for about 6 years.. iv quit for year once and then started a again. I can’t imagine life without smoking, I get anxiety when I think about that. I also am a bitch when I’m not stoned. People think I’m on drugs when I’m sober! The problem is I’m torn.. between wanting to quit so I can save money and loose weight and never smoking weed again. I love it, the smell, the taste and how pretty it is. There’s no way I could quit even if I really wanted to
i have been smoking weed for more than 2 years n i waned to know how long would it take to get it out of my system? also my eyes stooped getting red after a year 1/2 passed, wats up with that? anywho blaze, just know when not to!
well i have quit smoking 6 days ago full stop after 20 years of smoking cigs and what ever i could put in a rizla,the last 3 yrs due to bad times i have consumed 1/8 a day + and felt like shit smoking it,even thou i got board of the feeling i still smoked it,i guess thats the addiction…it does lead to other drug use to which i am glad to say i havent touched in over 15yrs.If the weed i bought was not very strong i would drink a few beers to help it out..
Since quiting i cant sleep,feel sick and generally feel like crap..i have wanted to quit for a long time ago but its hard when u a heavy user to quit as u find all ya friends tend to do the same shit and i have lost all of my clean frinds now but i guess it a price to pay to get my life back…i would not like to think how much money over last 20 yrs i have blown on drink n drugs…i have a very short meomery now and found i didnt want to mix wiv some of my friends as i didnt want them to know i was always wrecked,i guess now im finding out what it is like to be complety off drink,fags n weed…i do miss the feeling thou but there has to be a point when enough is enough and there is where i am now..
I need to quit. I appreciate the people who have posted here. The stories shared sound much like my own. I will come to this sight to be inspired and hopefully one day inspire. Unless I quit smoking weed everyday I will be an inspiration to nobody. I will quit.
how are you addicted to weed? i smoked for 2 years pretty offten and stopped for 2 years i mean its more boring but there are no real withdraws you can addicted to coffee easier than weed
After 18 years of pretty much everyday weed addiction I have been off of it for 8 days. I also stuck a nic patch on my arm and stopped drinking coffee, just a little green tea now. I have had night mares, sleepless nights, mood swings, very negative thoughts and anxiety.
But y’know what I still feel better than I have since I was 14 years old. The way I see it, my body and mind deserve the opportunity to be free of the stimulants and filters. For the past 10 years I have been feeling lousy about doing these things to myself because deep down I know they don’t belong in my veins or my mind. My memeory was getting pretty bad, it’s now coming back. Which makes me feel so much better than any high, and I’v edone most drugs you could mention. I’m a musician as well and I used to tell myself that the different perspective gaoned by smoking weed was helping me, now I know for certain that it was definately not. I have gained a proficiency on my instruments that I struggled with on pot. I was fooling myself, so bad. I don’t feel ashamed mind you, as I am forgiving of myself, it’s ok that I spent my youth and young adult years stinking like smokes and hoping certain people didn’t notice my bloodhot eyes and dilated pupils. That was the biggest source of shame. SO I resolve myself to having some horrific dreams, I’m practicing lucid dreaming again now to overcome these and if I do have a nightmare, that’s ok too, they’re dreams, I can learn from them. Plus, dreams can’t kill you. Go with it I say, let the negative emotions come out and be what they are. Get them out, write them down, journal. Take up Qigong, it is amazing, seriously, try spring forest qigong, it makes me feel so amazing, and full of forgiveness for myself. This is the best thing I have evr done for myself and no way am I ever going back under any circumstances. Don’t let the negative crap coming out of your system deter you from being an empowereed and confident CLEAN human being. You can do it. My next step is taking off the patch and getting the disgusting nicotine out of my body, I really can’t wait for that feeling of being whole again, like a second childhood in a way. I’m so stoked about it. ONe thing I’ve noticed for sure now is how my friends that still toke swing through their moods and say some of the most self defeating BS. I know it isn’t them talking but the high they are so addicted to. I personally can’t regulate pot in moderation myself so I’m staying away. Plus I don’t have to find myself associating with any slimeball dealers again. My final thoughts for the day today are, ” I am feeling better everyday, and soon enough I will feel even better” Stay strong.
look ppl if u have a problem with drug look for jesus crist he die 4 all ur sin if u ask jesus lord i need ur help i got these problem with weed he will help u trust me he help me every body u just need a lit bit of faith nd he will help you cuz u are all his children and he love u all a lot !!!! plz ppl he is the only that can help you *john 3.16* the end is coming
For anyone who says that marijuana “levels them out” or “its not an addiction” is only in denial and fooling themselves. I’ve smoked for 15 years daily and it is addictive, its not an opinion, its a fact. It may take longer then a couple years but it slowly sucks you in. When you quit after getting addicted you can’t sleep, you have nightmares, and you’re moody as hell. That is called withdrawal, and if you have withdrawal then there is an addiction. Any drug can be addictive, that’s why they are called drugs. For the people who say it levels them out, I’ll respond by saying it makes your bipolar worse. Because when you’re not medicating yourself you’re in a worse mood and have even greater bipolar tendencies. Think about the times when you’re dry and you can’t re up, you’re anxious and moody to a level way beyond if you never smoked at all. And for people who say its not addictive, then why do you get side effect after you quit? I don’t care if you smoked for 2 years and then stopped for 2 years, that means nothing, just because you don’t get hooked as quickly as cigs or harder drugs doesn’t mean it can’t happen. Don’t turn your personal experiences into facts, its not logical. My life was almost ruined because of pot and I am just one of many. Yes, most people can smoke without becoming addicted and that’s fine, but if you smoke consistently heed my warning, it will eventually catch up to you.
So pretty much that doesn’t sound too bad. Learn how to be able to stop every once in a while and you will be able to use it during times of low stress which can be beneficial to your high alone. I have ripped through 1/2 of an ounce in just under 3 days. Great weekend, but i should now take a break because my body feels like death. Worth the great times though.
i have just quit after 30 years of smoking heavy ….help
I have smoked weed for close to 40 years with some long periods of 3 or 4 years when I quit so that I could raise my kids. I fell back into it after my father died. It was just too painful and I craved the higher realm of thought. I have been very successful in life and I credited some of that to the mellowing that came from weed. In my natural state, I tend to get worked up. My father was an a drinker with a temper so at least I wasn’t hitting people on weed.
Now I realize I must quit. The reason is that I am an adventurer and my stoner habits have kept me from developing further as an artist and a human being. I especially regret the effect that my smoking had on my adult daughter who is also a smoker now with many problems. How could I tell her to quit if I couldn’t?
So it has been a week. I went on a trip with my wife and brought no stash. I was cranky but not too bad and now I’ve returned but I really feel pretty good and don’t have the cravings that used to defeat my efforts. I can tell you that my energy level is through the roof and I am making a shambles of my to-do list, especially important, long term decisions that I have procrastinated on.
I am sort of a hero to many young people and I was really not setting a good example. Leading them in the wrong direction. I guess you could say that I am a high level stoner achiever. Now I want to get rid of the stoner label and push myself to a higher level of accomplishment with the years I have left.
I wish everyone out there good luck in quitting. If you have a loved one that smokes, you can’t change them, you can only love them and help them see for themselves that the weed is holding them back. I have made my decision for myself and I believe that I will succeed this time around.
Iv’e been smoking Pot since I’m 18, and am now 52 I really feel like i’m losing a friend because I did it for so long now, but know that it’s time to quit. I am so moody without it I have High blood pressure and Pot really kept me calm for the day, but it got crazy scraping pipes enough! 7 days clean and sober now and gonna keep it up I want my mind in tact from this point on. It makes you lazy and u will lose interest in your favorite sports activities of all kinds. Jesus is the answer, If your serious he knows and will give you the help we need from him. Love to all you quitters and to he ppl who still want to smoke enjoy till your broke and tired of looking tired. Lungs feel much better. Cold turkey for me no more Pot, Booze and definetly no more cigs. I’m doing it and so can you. God Bless Us all on the page.
hi been smoking weed for 14 years smoke smoke 1/2 oz good weed every 2 -3 days. really want to stop but find it too dificult eg. cant sleep,wake with cold sweats,mood swings just to name a few any tips,think i smoke it to block out memories please help doctor tells me to speak to a drug advisor find it hard to speak to strangers another side effect of the pot .
2yrs since i started smoking..17yrs of age and seriously,my chest pains..lazie and begining to feel alone.fuck nightmares..weed,i love you so much but the more i do,the more you fuck me up..sorry i aint gona light you tonight but again afta never.i quit!!!
So I started smoking a little after having my son and being in a unhealthy relationship. I felt smoking took me away from reality. By the way it was my baby’s father who got me into smoking everyday. I picked up and left him one day and noticed that I felt I could not do without smoking due to the stress of raising a child alone and the extensive debt he left me in. I felt my dreams were fastly crashing. Now a year later I have decided to quit. I noticed I would leave work thinking about the blunt waiting for me at home, I didnt want to spend time with my son but instead smoke and lay down, etc… Just many things I used to do I did not want to do. It has only been four days but I am having nightmares and actually feel super tired all day. I also feel anxiety. This is harder then I thought it would be. I plan on getting some vitamins and start doing things that I used to enjoy like reading and excersing. I hope I can quit for good cause it does take you away from the finer things in life (family, friends, excercise, eat healthy). I hope to go back to school for my master so I need to do this now.
Yeah, I did the exact same thing, except for a bit longer. I started smoking when I was 16, but not heavily. Once I moved to NC for college I was smoking 3 or 4 blunts a day (great green), sometimes more when I went out at night to party. Mind you I was on the tennis team and played number 1 most of my time there. I got to the point where if I wasn’t high I’d feel weird. I played tournaments high, went to class high, and of course when I had downtime I was indeed high. I’m 23 now, and last time I smoked was 8 months ago. I still think about it almost every day. It sucks, but I just can’t do it anymore. The main reason is the money I was spending. I’ll get through it though. I’ve made a few new friends who aren’t into drugs, so they’ll support me. Great article, and very relatable .
how about you learn to use marijuana responsibly. dont let it interfere with the rest of your life and your set. I dont think marijuana is the real issue here, there are underlying issues that are just being made worst with weed.
Its essential to use marijuana when in a good mental state without any negative bullshit clouding your mind, respect the herb!
the same can be applied with anything else, people can abuse just about anything…but that is no reason to make it illegal or to condemn it
i just smoke on Sundays i don’t drink Alcohol or take anything .. I enjoy it every Sunday.. I’m a straight A student.. Depends on the dosage you take in.. Marijuana is not physically addictive it is psychologically addictive just like how my sister is addicted to chocolate..
It sounds like so many people commenting here have experienced shame and low self esteem from smoking weed, and thus by giving up have experienced pride and increased self confidence. But this all has to do with societies perception of weed and your perception of yourself and has nothing to do with the weed itself. Lots of people keep saying its a addictive, I wish they would qualify this, it is psychologically addictive (or habituating), it is not physically addictive and there is a massive difference between the two. The cycle tends to go (in my experience) stresses in life – weed used as remedy to the stress – shame about not dealing with the source of the stress – stopping smoking weed to deal with the shame – faced with the stress again and round we go again. If you want to solve your problems, stop smoking weed for a while and take a long hard look at the things you were using weed to hide from. They are the problem, not the weed.
Wow i gotta say your a pretty pathetic person. See i smoked more than you because i got it for free cause i grew it. But then i had to pay for it eventually which got me to a point where i was spending too much money so all you have to do is stop. Your so self conscious that your afraid to be high in public and dont want to be called a stoner makes you a pretty pathetic person that you have to be different so people dont look at you or think of you a certain way. Think for yourself and dont think of what other people think of you. Its really sad that you were so desperate for weed. I mean really how pathetic are you just have self control. Oh ya when you say that cigs get you higher, all it is really is less oxygen to your brain because your taking in cig smoke. Stop being a follower and think for yourself. Its just like women who are anorexic because the view of women in the US makes them feel fat so their perception of what they look like is so off because they arent as thin as models. Its really pathetic how some people live the way other people want them to. Oh and if that means believing in false hope to make you quit then so be it because people do it all the time like when they stop doing drugs because of jesus christ. I hate how people are so simple minded and rely on another being to help them make their choices. If people just would think for themselves and were completly open minded mabe they would learn how to control themselves instead of other people doing it for them or what thye consider a higher power. Oh and most likely im gonna get a bunch of complaints on spelling and if that is the case well then your a fuckin idiot becuase your missing the point of this and i would assume your a perfectionist, well guess what nothing is perfect, not even the universe. Perfection=impossible. lol people might think im mad or crazy but i just love to argue even if im wrong lol. if im crazy then w/e because most crazy people are the ones who change the world for the better or worse. if you want to be normal and stay the way your civilization is then we will eventaully kill ourselves along with everything else on earth. Dont give me that bullshit that i have to hope because if everyone keeps saying that then we will get knowhere because saying that only gives self satisfaction to the brain so you dont have to think about everything we are doing wrong with this world. lol i love my life
oh yes you would assume im not open minded but trust me i am because for me being open minded is contradicting everything their is that people believe in even if it sounds so legit because most things that people wouldnt doubt are things we were taught as a kid and when that happens its almost hardwired in your brain to believe it no matter what. Thats why a baby born in a jewish family is jewish and a baby born in a christian family is a christian. But if you contradict everything no matter what, their are endless doors of possibilities.
the only thing you cant dissagree on is your own brain. which includes everything you see, hear, taste, and touch. Or can you?
ya know, this is right on! smoking weed is just that….it doesn’t change you like some drugs, but it makes people, such as family, quit hanging out with you. it can take an athletic person and make them look like a couch cushion!!!
i’ve been trying to quit smoking weed almost since the day i started. with no other vices (unless you wanna say video games), smoking weed helped kill my 1st marriage. it’s crazy to think that this ’tilt’ i get is this important.
it’s not heroin or cocaine. it isn’t alcohol either. what could help, honestly, is a change in law or public perception. but it’s not that way, and i guess i’m really just now seeing that.
I smoked weed occasionally when i was younger. I dont anymore, just makes me hungry and tired.
My hubby on the other hand, it seems like he revolves his life around it. Running out to the garage a few times a day to smoke it. He tries to hide it from alot of people. His hair constantly smells like it and it stinks! He stinks after he smokes it.
We have kids that are getting older. Theyre not dumb, eventually they are gonna figure it out. They already say “oh daddys probably in the garage”
I am just so tired of how upset he gets over nothing. We went to look at cell phones and he was so PISSED off bc they didnt have the one he wanted! He wanted to throw his phone, it was pretty bad. Hes sitting there in walmart saying “i dont fucking kno!” over and over and over. “wtf should i do?” i dont know what to do” i hate this shit.” he gets mad at me and our kids over nothing. He gets pissed off at our 1 year old bc she makes a huge mess and wont let him help her. im just tired of him always being upset about something. He rarely has good days anymore.
im just tired of it. Keep thinking, one of these days, im taking our kids and leaving. why should i be miserable bc of him being moody all the time?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ps. when we were in the hospital when my youngest was born and he couldnt smoke then, he was absolutely wonderful!
If you use weed as a medication eat it dont smoke it. Does smoking weed cause a problem with your health finance or family. If it does than your not doing it responsibly simple as that same as any other recreational drug. maybe something else effects these 3 key points of your life. take some responsibility Tom Scottq, shayne. By the way, your not a loser because you smoke weed. You are just a loser, and you alwayse will be untill you take responsibility for yourself. I have read all of these posts and nobody has said that weed is doing anything negative in their lives. like he said caffien and ciggarets are legal and caffeen makes some people act like they are on crack f-that and siggarets are the hardest drug to quit (scientificly proven). If you feel guilty for hiding it then don’t hide it theres an idea for you. The side affects for weed are that it slows down your brain just a little bit, lowerd sperm count, loss of brain cells. Its better than the air we breath do you know how many chemicals are in the air of the average metropolis, you dont want to know. dont get me wrong idea using weed to cope with “bad feelings” is not good, unless its anger. You should really find somebody who loves you to talk about your feelings and be honest. your not gonna fix yourself by reading this blog but maybe being honest with yourself and others. So now you know the truth, pretty cool eh? and by the way I love to smoke weed and will do so for the rest of my life.
Do not push your religion on me, sir. how is jesus going to help anybody he is dead or at least he was until he turned into a zombie. the only person that can help you Is you. they will use religion as a crutch just like they are using weed.
Well done Loved the truth U wrote. Im not against pot, just chronic pot smoking,U gota live in the real world even when it sucks.
Before I started smoking marijuana I was depressed all the time and hated everything and everyone around me. I was so far gone in my own self hatred that I was contemplating going to Satan. Then the little group of friends I did have were smoking so I decided to join them. I now know how to see the bright side of things and can enjoy life in a more relaxed calm mood. It’s true weed isn’t for everyone, but neither is alcohol or cigarettes. The thing about smoking weed is people forget that it is a drug and use it in mass quantities frequently. You have to learn to pace yourself. Smoke a dime sack and save the eighth for a more social occasion. And consider using different methods of smoking like a bong instead of a blunt or zig zag because it filters the smoke and is better for you. Basically don’t let the weed define u, just use it as an enhancement for the things u already love to do. One of the reasons that smokers feel so bad is because people label them as horrible, lazy, evil people and the guilt is inside of them whether they realize it or not. But to all my smokers out there enjoy your smoke and take my advice into consideration if you are an everyday smoker.
Weed is not addicting!!!! Its all in your head
i have been smokin pot since my junior year inhigh school. i am now 20 yrs old and will be 21 in a few months. i definately feel that marijuana is a mental addiction. and i can definately see the many side effects it has had on my life. im lazy, overweight, broke, and tired all the time. pot stopped being fun and started being everything. i plan my day around when im going to smoke which is not good. so i plan for my quit date to e april 22nd i know if i try to quit before 420 i will not make so im going to quit two days after. wish me luck!
for the past week ive been trying to quit and this encouraged me to stop completely, because these are things that have been happening to me in the past couple months.
Hi people, i’d like to thank all that have posted on this page. I want to say that i have decided to stop smoking weed after a year of been baked almost everyday. I have realised that i smoked weed because i had nothing else to do, i have wasted a year of my life in which i should of been maintaining my relationships with friends and family. The people i smoked weed with wern’t true friends they dont wanna know me now i’ve stopped smoking and its only been 4 days scince i stopped. I can’t sleep properly at night without a joint but in the day i feel more active and socible. I also feel confident and not shy like before. I intend to never smoke weed again as it made me a lazy un-motivated bum. Im 17 and just wanna get a job and live life not been stoned and lazy all the time. This is why i gotta go through sleepless nights and quit smoking weed.
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